Perfectionism, in psychology, is a belief that perfection can and should be attained. In it's pathological form, perfectionism is a belief that work our output that is anything less than perfect is unaccaptable.
Everyone has their own way of accheiving perfection...because I like to get work done as best as it can be, it doesn't mean I'm perfectionist.
If I was a perfectionist, I'd be so much better at everything.
Now I'm not even close to good at whatever I do...
If I was less dependant on my feelings,I'd probably so much better...I could even do stuff I'm totally, completely afraid of doing right now...
but in the end some feelings are good.They give us the information about ourselves.How we deal with the world outside ourselves. It's suppose to be a feedback about what's going on around us. But I still don't get why we always keep remembering the bad feelings...the anger,sadness,disapointments...why not all the happy moments we had with someone or something.The feelings we felt then...
Why do we always tie ourselves to the broken memories,to ones that force us into a small shell and make us build a protective wall around it just in case someone wants to hurt us again...
so in the end I'm not a perfectionist!
I'm just protected my the wall of perfection...
